Convergence between desirability and feasibility
When psychological distance is large, a shift occurs wherein individuals think in a more
abstract manner focusing on the bigger picture, that is, desirability of specific options and the
reasoning behind why individuals want them. In contrast, when psychological distance is small,
the thinking is steered towards being more concrete. That is stressing on the details of the
feasibility of options and how to employ them in order to maximize benefits (Hamilton, 2015).
This is consistent with the construal theory.
In gifting psychology, desirability refers to whether the quality of the gift is worth
possessing and its satisfaction long-term. For example, appraising the quality of food at a
restaurant. Feasibility refers to how reasonable the gift is and the means through which one can
achieve that long-term satisfaction, for example, how convenient it is to get to the restaurant to
try their cuisine. Taking this into account, the giver’s driving factor during gift-selection is
desirable gifts, which often overrides the selection of feasible gifts which the receiver shows
considerable preference towards (Liu et al., 2022).
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Social distance
Social distance is a central aspect in the inconsistencies between the givers and receivers.
Givers place greater precedence on their likings along with the receiver’s likings, thereby
analyzing the gift from a farther social distance. Whereas, receivers place value solely on their
own likings, disregarding other factors, thereby analyzing the gift from a closer social distance
(Liu et al., 2022). This imbalance of social distance could engender a subsequent rocky
relationship, because giver’s dwell on desirability while receiver’s dwell on feasibility.
Research also aligns with givers evaluating gifts from a farther social distance, thereby
keeping desirability attributes in mind rather than feasibility attributes (Liu et al., 2022). To paint
a picture of these concepts, during the process of selecting earphones, givers would most likey
give prominence to sound quality (desirability) over maintenance of the earphones (feasibility)
during gift-selection, while receivers give prominence to maintenance of the earphones
(feasibility) over sound quality (desirability).
Name your price?
Price contributes significantly to how product quality is weighed amongst givers and
receivers. In accordance with the economist theory, price relates to monetary sacrifice. The
binary function of price is brought together by aligning these concepts of supposed quality and
perceived monetary cost portrays (Liu et al., 2022). The magnitude of its influence depends on
cultural factors including power distance. It illustrates the strength of a society’s social hierarchy
i.e.; their acceptance of power being distributed asymmetrically and their compliance to
authorities (Liu et al., 2022). People in high power-distance societies like China, have a tendency
to draw a parallel between higher price and greater quality, which is in opposition to people in
low power-distance societies.
Motivational elements
Similarly, mindset (psychological distance) and motivational goals guide people’s choices
and beliefs. Two motivational factors encompassing prevention focus and promotion focus are
greatly involved in the price-quality inference (Files et al., 2019). Prevention-focused goals
involves deliberation in terms of safety and danger, motivated to prevent loss.
Promotion-focused goals involves deliberation over achievement and accomplishment, prompted
to achieve gains (Files et al., 2019). Consumers who adopt the promotion-focused mindset are
predisposed to view expensive gifts as a criterion of good quality. However, those who are
prevention-focused are inclined to regard expensive gifts as an indicator of monetary cost (Liu et
al., 2022).
Clash of conflicting ideals
The evaluation of gift price is a fundamental pathway that leads to discrepanices between
givers and receivers. Givers’ thought process involves conveying through the gift the importance of their relationship, hence putting greater emphasis on price. Another incongruence stems from
the interplay between gift price and the extent of the receiver’s feeling of appreciation.
According to the giver, higher price equals to greater thoughtfulness behind the gift which should
prompt greater appreciation, while the same notion is not shared by the receiver. That means the
concept of price-quality inference does persist, which emerges from the psychological
phenomenon- “more expensive, more attractive”.
Does greater price mean higher quality?
It was previously conjectured that the more expensive the gift, the more appreciation felt
by the receivers, and reflected the closeness of the giver-receiver relationship. In actuality, the
higher price of the gift represented financial sacrifice and perceived quality. Due to
psychological distance, consumers view and attach value to price roles differently. The
price-quality inference (more expensive, more attractive) is highly evident and magnified under
the conditions of far psychological distance than close psychological distance. Hence, givers
place greater weight on the price-quality inference because they appraise gift-selection from a far
psychological distance.
Givers use price to perceive quality, leading givers to believe that this good quality will
stipulate a good gift while hoping receivers’ beam with happiness. Yet, the “more expensive,
more attractive” idea does not apply to receivers, in fact, low-priced gifts were increasingly
appreciated than high-priced gifts (Liu et al., 2022). Its implication is that receivers showed
sensitivity to behavioural cost instead of monetary value, meaning the time givers spent
contemplating about the receivers' preferences and choices while at the same time, bringing these
efforts into fruition. Consequently, low-priced gifts indicate a low emotional cost, signifying
greater kindness because it shows givers profoundly care about receivers to the degree that they
wish to prevent receivers from feeling burdened when reciprocating. A higher priced gift would
imply a higher burden placed on the shoulders of the receivers that may be inescapable (Liu et
al., 2022).
Marketing manipulation and how to be cognizant
For marketers, if this ideaology of a reduced psychological distance is adopted amongst
the majority, then their business is at risk of going into loss as consumers would not spend as
much. Their target is influencing the far psychological distance mentality, making the “more
expensive, more attractive” prominent enough (Liu et al., 2022). Marketers use advertisements as
a tool to enhance this fantasy, by luring its audience with the display of luxurious items which
seemingly elicit exaggerated positive reactions from the receiver. This makes the audience
unable to distinguish between the unrealistic aspect of how particular gifts portray the “ideal
self” and “ideal life” compared to reality.
Generally, when engaging in the process of gift-selection, the stronger focus on
desirability over feasibility navigates consumers to perceive high price as a benchmark of high
quality. This is appraised from a far psychological distance. Nonetheless, it forces one to shift
their perspective to avoid falling into the trap of high-priced gifts and to use rationale when
partaking in gift-selection. The key to an ideal gift is behavioural cost, in which thoughtfulness is
crucial in gift expressing, not merely driven by price. To combat feasibility over desirability, if
there is a maintenance cost, the best course of action would be to cover that cost which distinctly
expresses thoughtfulness too. Finally, reducing psychological distance can be attained by putting
the self into the shoes of the receiver to gauge its usefulness and whether one feels joy as a gift
receiver.
Inara Nanji
Psychology Blogger,
The Shared Secrets Lab,
GiftAFeeling Inc.
Read The Official Research Paper On - Price as a Function of Gift-Selection